Husbands have hard time to understand his wife’s behavior. Even they have been married from years. She is fine but after five minutes she is crying like a baby. She complains about anything, you give suggestion but she did not satisfy with it. You should not worry about what your wife says, instead you should worry about what she does not say.
1. She is bored.
It’s the same thing every day, she is tired and bored of that routine in which she has to care about her children and run the house hold. And not forget about the working women, they have to work a full time job as well as the house hold.
So, it’s an advice, give your wife a break and make her feel special. Take her for outing, bring her favorite desert home, give her small gifts, just do something that make her feel special.
2. She wants your love.
When a husband shows his wife less respect, in return she shows him less respect. Show your love to her, she’ll respect you even with your flaws.
3. She wants your compliments.
Everybody wants appreciation. No one wants to feel as if the hard work they do goes unnoticed or even worse, it taken for granted. Your wife does not have to clean your shoes, wash your dirty clothes. She does not have to cook meals for you but she does all these things. She does it on the top of all other things.
Show that you are thankful to her for maintaining you and your family. Just say thank you, she will be happy with it.
4. She’s Insanely Jealous.
Be very careful how you talk about other women around your wife. Never ever compare your wife to another woman. Do not compare with any movie star, your mother or your ex-wife or other wife.
She wants to know that she is the only female you love he most, so make her feel like that.Even the Prophet’s (pbuh) wives got jealous. Aisha (RA) even got jealous of Khadijah (RA) who was dead.Expect, and respect, the same type of jealousy from your wife.